Spent international women’s day.watching performances/meeting the gorgeous and talented women in Cilver, Eyes Set To Kill, Lacuna Coil and Sick Puppies.
One of the best concerts ever and I’m swooning over these female musicians.
I’m really glad I’ve grown into myself to go out and do these things alone.
Giving up your hopes and dreams for lent.
"I want to get to know you."
More and more, I’ve come to know the expression to mean “I want to know your darkness”, even if that’s not the intention of whoever says it, irs the reality of it.
The good parts of people are always up like a window display, where the person picks and choses what qualities they want passersby to see and assign to their personal brand; the bad qualities are something you have to dig for.“I want to know your darkness”, it has a sexual and almost fetish sounding connotation, which also covers another level of the kind of understanding the simple phrase can mean. For me, the deepest and darkest understanding of another is in knowing how they lie. How their motives, hidden from the plain sight of passersby, colors their decisions and their mannerisms towards the outside world. In being able to catch someone in a lie, in knowing how they lie. What are the sort of things that they will lie about and how to what measures will they resort to keep a lie. Without knowing that much, you really don’t know much about a person at all.
"Be yourself and do what makes you happy, if they have a problem with it they’re obviously not right for you."
I don’t think most women are as comfortable with a man who doesn’t live up to traditional gender roles as society wants us to believe.